Women Talk and Men Sorta Listen

Some guys just have a talent, they know how to listen to the women in their life. For the majority of us this seems to be an issue. Its not that the rest of us don't want to listen, its just we zone out. Some of it is our fault, our attention spans are less then a minute without some sort of action to keep our attention. But some of it is the women fault, why is it that the most important moment to have a conversation is during the football game? Why do they have to start talking during that movie/TV show you have already invested time in? However, we are still responsible for making this work. NO Faking she will know.

We are not equipped to successfully handle talking in more than 5 min intervals, we need bullet point conversation and we definitely don't want to discuss our feelings. The most common complaint with my male friends is "She just keeps talking" or "She has repeated the same story over and over again". Well in her defense, she wants to connect. Women need connection, so remember next time you want sex you need to ACTUALLY pay attention. If she is repeating the same story, its only because you think its the same story. Try and pay attention you might learn that she is telling you something different. 

Listening is difficult but its not impossible. So to keep that relationship going smooth put in some effort and listen to what she has to say. You won't be sorry.

Here are some guidelines for talking with Men

1. Bullet Point Conversation
2. Do Not Talk During the Game
3. Keep Conversation points short and to the point
4. Keep the guy involved in the conversation
5. Reward good Listening skills 

Until My Next Post Remember Its not considered listening if she is giving you a Lap Dance.